I know a lot of men and women who like to be "in love" but really have no clue what love is. Before you can love anyone you have to love yourself first! No, I'm not talking about masturbation but about loving yourself from the top of your head to the soles of your feet. Loving your flaws, your strengths, owning who you are as a woman. Self love is having confidence in your beauty and brains. Self love is staying in your lane not trying to be like some one else. I'm not saying not to admire someone but when you try to imitate their life that's a problem. Self love is NOT staying in abusive relationships be it verbal or physical. Ladies and some gentlemen too, a person that disrespects you, that makes you feel less than, that hits you DOES NOT LOVE YOU. Love yourself enough to walk away. So this Valentine's Day love yourself first.
I know you are probably wondering why the Whitney video. Yes, it is the reason for the title of this blog but the other reason is to remember this great singer. There will never be another voice like Whitney Houston!
Be Blessed and Fabulous!